tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post8680733021667263815..comments2023-03-28T19:33:21.268+01:00Comments on Life, Death and everything inbetween....: Lost Lovezoe1977http://www.blogger.com/profile/06911797994635547014noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post-60346134695642977062012-08-11T08:03:16.710+01:002012-08-11T08:03:16.710+01:00postingan yang bagus tentang"Lost Love"postingan yang bagus tentang"Lost Love"obat mata minushttp://www.lakubos.com/2012/03/min.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post-74560468305747198332012-07-16T00:50:25.826+01:002012-07-16T00:50:25.826+01:00Hi Zoe, I just found your blog -- what a story you...Hi Zoe, I just found your blog -- what a story you have, and so much you have been through! You are very courageous. I just lost a friend to cancer and I know just a little of how tough it can be. I can't wait to read more of your journey! And hang in there .. you will get through this! xoxoxJanehttp://thehealthybeehive.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post-6834479621075612002012-06-19T14:28:34.440+01:002012-06-19T14:28:34.440+01:00Hi Zoe
I understand a bit more, now that I have s...Hi Zoe<br /><br />I understand a bit more, now that I have seen this post. I thought about what it must be like for you, when you told us that you had lost your husband. I thought about how I would feel if that had happened to me.I would not stop loving, and it would be hard, as its substantially different from a relationship which breaks up, you grieve and come out on the other side or you choose to leave. You had a good relationship and still love your husband, whom you miss. A friend of mine went through the same thing (she lost one of my close friends - Graham - her hubby suddenly). It took her a very long time to grieve, accept, and then to slowly move on and open herself to the prospect of anything even resembling a relationship. <br /><br /><br />You have been through hell and its going to take a long time to go through the grieving process - anger, acceptance which is the hardest and then moving on (always retaining his memory in a very special place that only he holds)especially since you lost him so suddenly (it's not fair I know). Its like the cancer, you want to feel angry because its so unfair (but you cannot direct your anger at anyone, it's just the way things have played out in life). I understand how you must miss him more now than anything else, as you have been through a rough time and you miss his love, support and hugs through all of this.<br /><br />I'm trying to understand and I think that no one would blame you if you did not rush into anything. You grieve at your own pace and when you come out on the other side you will decide what you are open to and ready for (re: relationships). Talk about him as much as you want to. We are here. It has to help?<br /><br />P.S I am making that wish for you too........Zoe<br /><br />Noelene<br /><br />NoeleneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post-8715810260235656882012-06-18T21:13:38.468+01:002012-06-18T21:13:38.468+01:00Zoe.....
I'm making that wish for you.... and ...Zoe.....<br />I'm making that wish for you.... and yes, also hoping you will learn to be comfortable putting yourself in the Number One Spot. One of the women I met at NBCC said something that I will remember (despite my CRAFT chemobrain-CRAFT=Can't Remember A F'ing Thing.... spoken by a doctor at Sloan Kettering's survivor celebration!).... Anyway.... hold on to this thought:<br />"Yes, Right After ME, you come first." You earned it.....<br /><br />hugs...AnneMariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17728571907921895836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8352433134962850994.post-10356735953334495912012-06-18T17:57:01.924+01:002012-06-18T17:57:01.924+01:00I will ardently hold that hope that one day you ag...I will ardently hold that hope that one day you again have that feeling. This is a very honest post, Zoe. Thank you for sharing. Putting yourself first, focusing on your healing – it sounds like a wonderful idea and there’s everything right in the concept. It sounds as though you’ve had the toughest three years. Maybe now is a time for recover and recuperation?Catherinehttp://www.facingcancer.ca/noreply@blogger.com